@ Rayshma: I like your way of thinking very much :)
@ Solitaire: Judging from your reply to aneri_masi, I am hoping you meant enmeshing as a good thing!
I'm planning to move end of this month. I saw in Rayshma's blog that you're leaving your fav. Ohio too :P Internship, I'm guessing? When is your defense?
@ Aneri_masi: You like to play devil's advocate, don't you? But your blogs tell me otherwise about consequences of familiarity :)
@ G-man: Right. I'm worried about the space thing exactly, specially with sudden abrupt change. Anyways I just think too much sometimes, specially about stupid things :)
@ Ankur: Hmm. I don't know. I find most people are nicer to me ever since I'm away from them :)
@ Poo : You are the best! I love how you make everything so genuinely positive and yet make it sound the simplest. You get a big hug :)
About what I said to you, and what you see in my blogs, yeah, it does breed contempt about some things, utter bewilderment about some things, and fondness for some things. Its up to you to decide whether you want to give more importance to the things that annoy you, or the ones that make you smile. Life will throw everything at you, you have to pick wisely :)
@ Ankur: I didn't mention anyone in particular, did I? :) But yes the thought came from that one guy. He and I live on two sides on US now, but he rarely admits he misses me. He went home and after 2 weeks he said "I am starting to miss you" :D So I thought maybe the saying is true :) Then the next thought came to me because I'm moving within an hour away from his place.
@ Aqua girl: Hi! Thanks for visiting and blogrolling me.
So you're saying things aren't as nice with decrease in distance? :(
@ AM: Great suggestions. I usually try to do all these. Guess will have to be more careful as we will get to see each other more often.
I am noticing you and I have lot of same philosophies :)
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see, the thing is... the heart doesn't know the proverb. so it loves on... ;)
You enmesh.
When is this scheduled to happen?
Or familiarity might breed contempt.
that depends on the people :) as long as everyone gets their space i don't think there'll be a problem
depends totally!!!
i have experience that the first one is utter nonsense!!! :)
Cheers!!!!
Simple, once the distane no longer exists, you take the said fond feelings and put them in action!
@ Ankur,
Agree with you completely.
@ Aneri,
GEEZ! Let us not discourage her.
@ Rayshma: I like your way of thinking very much :)
@ Solitaire: Judging from your reply to aneri_masi, I am hoping you meant enmeshing as a good thing!
I'm planning to move end of this month. I saw in Rayshma's blog that you're leaving your fav. Ohio too :P Internship, I'm guessing? When is your defense?
@ Aneri_masi: You like to play devil's advocate, don't you? But your blogs tell me otherwise about consequences of familiarity :)
@ G-man: Right. I'm worried about the space thing exactly, specially with sudden abrupt change.
Anyways I just think too much sometimes, specially about stupid things :)
@ Ankur: Hmm. I don't know. I find most people are nicer to me ever since I'm away from them :)
@ Poo : You are the best! I love how you make everything so genuinely positive and yet make it sound the simplest. You get a big hug :)
Were we really talkin abt EVERYONE here!!!
i dont think so... coz in general, yeah my mom dad miss me as i m here away from them!!! :)
Cheers!!!
Like the first one better....experienced it.....has worked.
About the distance decreasing, ahh thats wen you get to know the real person and the stuff thats always been put to cover.
dont mind me blogrolling..!!
Oh, I was just trying to use some proverb.
About what I said to you, and what you see in my blogs, yeah, it does breed contempt about some things, utter bewilderment about some things, and fondness for some things. Its up to you to decide whether you want to give more importance to the things that annoy you, or the ones that make you smile. Life will throw everything at you, you have to pick wisely :)
and the space, yeah, do guard it :)
@ Ankur: I didn't mention anyone in particular, did I? :)
But yes the thought came from that one guy. He and I live on two sides on US now, but he rarely admits he misses me. He went home and after 2 weeks he said "I am starting to miss you" :D So I thought maybe the saying is true :) Then the next thought came to me because I'm moving within an hour away from his place.
@ Aqua girl: Hi! Thanks for visiting and blogrolling me.
So you're saying things aren't as nice with decrease in distance? :(
@ AM: Great suggestions. I usually try to do all these. Guess will have to be more careful as we will get to see each other more often.
I am noticing you and I have lot of same philosophies :)
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